Substance abuse among children is an escalating crisis that demands urgent attention. With studies showing that over 66% of Nigerian teenagers engage in drug misuse – often to enhance physical performance or cope with emotional distress – the need for effective parental intervention has never been greater.
Experts agree that while the journey to recovery is complex, the right approach can make all the difference.
Here are five prioritized strategies every parent or caregiver should consider when faced with a child struggling with substance abuse.
1. Start with a Calm, Honest Conversation
The first and most vital step is to sit down with your child and talk – genuinely and without judgment. According to behaviour analyst Ibukunola Afolabi, children who feel heard are more likely to open up about their struggles.
Use relatable stories or online resources to illustrate the dangers of substance abuse. Avoid confrontation; instead, foster a safe space where your child feels supported and understood. This initial dialogue lays the foundation for trust and healing.
2. Seek Professional Mental Health Support
Once the conversation has begun, it’s essential to involve a qualified mental health expert. Psychologist Idris Abayomi recommends therapies like Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) to help children identify triggers and develop healthier coping mechanisms.
Professional guidance not only supports the child’s recovery but also equips parents with tools to navigate the emotional terrain of addiction.
3. Get Medical Evaluation and Treatment
Substance abuse can wreak havoc on a child’s physical and mental health. From withdrawal symptoms to organ damage, the risks are real and often hidden.
A thorough medical assessment ensures that any complications are addressed promptly and appropriately.
Healthcare professionals can also recommend detox programs or medications where necessary, safeguarding the child’s overall well-being.
4. Create Structure and Reinforce Positive Behavior
Children in recovery thrive in environments that are both structured and nurturing. Establish clear rules around substance use and consistently enforce consequences. At the same time, reward positive choices and encourage involvement in peer groups that promote healthy living.
Rebuilding family values and routines can help reorient not just the child, but the entire household toward a more supportive lifestyle.
5. Never Abandon Them, Stay Consistently Supportive
Recovery is rarely linear. There will be setbacks, but abandoning a child during these moments can deepen feelings of shame and isolation.
Let your child know that they are not alone. Your consistent presence can be the anchor they need to weather the storm.
