Nollywood actress and former Big Brother Naija star Bamike Adenibuyan, popularly known as BamBam, has advised couples to hold off on physical intimacy until they are certain about getting married.
Speaking on the Echo Room podcast hosted by her husband Teddy A, BamBam emphasized the importance of emotional security and open communication in relationships.
“You have to be emotionally secure in your relationship,” she said.
“You guys should talk about everything. Know what your husband does, know what your wife does, and then decide if you want to continue with the person or not.”
She encouraged couples to discuss work-related challenges and set clear boundaries to avoid future surprises.
“Have the conversation, decide what your boundaries are, what you will not go past,” she added.
On intimacy, BamBam was clear in her advice:
“I would advise anybody dating, if you can keep sx out of the mix till you’re sure of getting married, just do it. That way, you can focus on building trust, understanding, and friendship before anything else.”
Reflecting on her own marriage, she acknowledged that it hasn’t always been smooth but credited communication as the glue that keeps them together.
“Make sure you talk about everything. Decide how you can deal with it, then know your limit,” she said.
